It feels horribly wrong to create a child- another human being with someone- and then lose that person. We created and started a family of our own. Father, mother, child. Now it is just mother and child. And with you died any other children that might have been. We are incomplete here without you Hae wan- so completely deficient and flawed.
List-making in a Dark Time
For any other list-makers out there, I published this on HerStories yesterday.""In this time of quarantine, my lists are offering me space outside of the walls of my home, a way of making sense of chaos, a self-imposed structure on structure-less days, and even a way...